Handout for Rounds 2 and 3:
Emotional Freedom Technique: Round 2:
Re-focus on the issue. How strong is the feeling, on a scale from 1 to 10? Is it above a 2?
- Bring your 2 thumbs up in front of your face and make figure 8’s while you follow your thumbs with your eyes.
- Hum the “Happy Birthday” song while you continue to make figure 8’s with your thumbs. This activates the musically-oriented lobes of the brain.
- If you still feel the intensity, repeat the point tapping: Top of the Head/Under Eyes/Ribs/Medial Eyes/Ears/Lateral Eyebrows/Lateral Nose/Pinkie/Chest/Anterior Deltoids/Chest Below Breast Line/Lateral Eyes/K-27’s/Upper Lip/Lower Lip/Both Lips.
- Tap the lateral edge of each of your hands, saying, “Even though I am feeling this feeling, I completely love and accept myself.”
- Check in with yourself. What is the intensity level?
- By this time, you will probably feel relaxed, released, tired or exhausted. Or, if you still have an intensity over 2, resume Round 3.
Emotional Freedom Technique: Round 3:
Re-focus on the issue. Determine the intensity level, from 1 to 10--is it still above a 2? Make a note of this number.
- If you still feel the intensity, repeat the point tapping: Top of the Head/Under Eyes/Ribs/Medial Eyes/Ears/Lateral Eyebrows/Lateral Nose/Pinkie/Chest/Anterior Deltoids/Chest Below Breast Line/Lateral Eyes/K-27’s/Upper Lip/Lower Lip/Both Lips.
- Tap the lateral edge of each of your hands, saying, “Even though I am feeling this feeling, I completely love and accept myself.”
Post-Emotional Freedom Technique Check-In
- Check in with yourself to see if your numbers have gone down AND when you get triggered. What specific thought are you thinking or feeling are you having?
- Being conscious about the thoughts you are having will show you information about unprocessed past events that you need to address; insecurities; or possible traumas.
- Pay attention each time you get triggered with this particular emotion, and if you can, go ahead and do the EFT technique whenever your feelings are triggered.
- Over time, you will notice patterns. Being conscious of your patterns is an important step in the healing process.
- Remember to focus on the intention to LET GO. Holding on to emotional issues is never helpful.
Identify and Replace Negative Thoughts with Positive Ones
- If you can consciously identify the negative thought or feeling, state it mentally or out loud. Then change it to a positive statement, and repeat that frequently throughout the day. This re-programs your neural pathways to think positively and to re-frame negative situations.
Some examples are:
"Person X is going to let me down"… becomes "I attract and have reliable people in my life because I am reliable."
"Person Y annoys me"…becomes…"I recognize the growth opportunity this person gives me."
"I don't have enough money for this''…becomes, "I will save and create the money for this so that I can have it in my life at the right time."